I don't know why wives see positions in the family as important, I'm the smallest wife and they don't hesitate to molest me. When we have family functions, they give me plenty work, when they are sharing money, they give me the smallest, they don't give me respect yet they report me when I unknowingly disrespect them.
 
I've been taking it without saying anything but at the function we went on Saturday I vex and did something that I might regret and that's why I need your advice.  
 
My husband's uncle was doing his 60th birthday so I had to go a night before so as to help with the cooking and everything. I was in fact the first one to get there and did the bulk of the work, by the time most of them started arriving it was only the frying of meat that was left and I was just so tired. I explained what was left to do, started it, left them to finish up and went to sleep.
 
The next day, I didn't know that they all had me in mind, when they were sharing the money they collected, one of them called me to come and collect my share, I moved towards them and the first wife (wife of hubby's elder brother) hissed, slapped my share of the money on my hand and said something about me wanting to collect money without working.
 
I told her about how I came early and did the bulk of the work and left only when I was too tired to continue, to make her know that the money isn’t important, I threw back the money at her and left them. They have called a family meeting on my matter and said I have to beg the woman, please where did I do wrong? Dis is so unfair!
 

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