I've been married for 4 still trying to conceive am 30yrs I once noticed that my husband wass cheating on me be he denied it. Even when I got evidence yet he still denied it. So there was one lady that do call me that am a fool that my husband has been cheating on me with her And still not do anything.later my husband told me he has cut ties with d lady, but I know they still communicate. This morning he CAlled me and told me that there's a lady that got pregnant for him and delivered twins and the other lady has been threatening him that she will tell me if my husband did not continue the relationship with her I mean that first lady that do call me. Now  he has been apologizing since morning  he begged me not to tell my in-laws  now. Cos they are good Christian and God faring people  they love me despite that am still ttc and they are always at my back now my fellow women what should I do am thinking of getting a divorce  and let go of d marriage  in the sense that if he loves me as he claimed he won't dare  sleep with anyone. He told me that it's Our pastor is the only one that is aware cos he confined in him that he was scared  ,Immidately that thing happened  not that the pastor was part of the plan
Pls help me out. 
I've been crying since morning. He still tell me he loves me that I should not worry even if it's ivf  this year we must try all our best Am just confused. Now should I be the one to inform my in-laws .or what should I do to my husband and d children cos my husband said anything I want to do. Even if I want to forgive him I want him to feel what am passing through  although he's out of the country now he told me that right now he's very happy cos he get the boldness to tell and his heavy burden has been lifted. Pls how do I deal with this, am a very soft hearted person and I forgive ppl easily  .thank u person my grammatical errors  is just my state of mind

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