i got married at the age of 19 and am blessed with two lovely kids.I got pregnant out of wedlock but hubby insisted we got wedded, we got married and at the night of our honeymoon he denied that he is the father of our unborn child, I was shocked but I had to comport myself .I told him that I haven't been with another since I met with him. I overlooked it until I put to birth and the baby looked so much like him then he accepted the child. Same thing happened to our second child, that's when I realized that something is not right. I decided to confront him and ask him why he keeps denying our children but all he said was "AM SORRY ".Three years after he started accusing me of infidelity, Calling me all sort of names, saying that am bad luck to him and all what not. I cry, groone in tears, and prayed .When I couldn't bear it again I told the mum just to see if problems could be solved but I never knew that mom and son were the same. It's got worst when he took me and the kids to live at the moms place when he decided to live in a hotel for 3yrs. I was humiliated, used and denied of my right. I was frustrated I never saw this as marriage anymore, I called hubby and discussed this with him telling him that we should get a house of our own but Nooooo he said. I started making friends and friends mislead me. Please don't judge me I know I was wrong to have fallen. But when I realized my mistake I confessed it to hubby yes he forgave me like he did but things grew from bad to worst. He has turned my kids against me, told the family how bad I am he has been cheat on me that I know but I never for one day questioned him because I needed peace. After so much pressure on him he decided to get a house but since then he has refused to eat my food, he looks me out of the room at night, he has turned my innocent kids against me. Please don't criticize me this can happen to any of us. I need your advice on what to do, I have packed my bags severally to go but he does not allow me to, have asked for a divorce but he has refused to grant me. What do o do because am tired of being like this. I need your advise.

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