A Mamalette wants to share!

Mamalette, please help me post this to encourage other mamas out there. (Long Post) I am one of the wives of a very faithful husband and I'm here to share my story. This is not to make any woman here feel bad or jealous but to let you know that not all men are cheats and that it is an act all men can overcome if they desire. God did not create men who are unfaithful and decided they should marry faithful wives and make their lives living hell. No. It's the work of the devil if any man let's him in. My husband is not a saint. He hurts me sometimes just as I hurt him but he is faithful to me. In fact, at a point I felt he was too good, cheating behind my back in a perfect way, and that was why I couldn't catch him but it wasn't the case at all. He would tell me when I ask why he doesn't cheat, "for me to cheat is work. I don't know what spirit is following the girl. How about her smell? Will I like it? Her pussy won't even fit my dick. It's made for you. Then I have to dash her money I don't have. And be locking my phone and hiding to call her. What if she's now a psycho? How about you? How do I face you? What spirit am I bringing into my home? It will affect my daughter in the future." And I'll rest my case and not disturb him. The man loves me so much and he's not afraid to say he chose me before his mom. I'm 8 months pregnant with our second child and I'm not allowed to touch any housework, although I do it stubbornly to ease his stress. This is a man that spends hours in traffic each day and will yet come home and want to cook dinner for me. His friends always tell me to never do anything to hurt him; they always tell me how much he loves me. He even hardly hangs out with them cos some of them cheat. He'd rather stay home at weekends unless they come to drag him out or I beg him to just have a drink with them. My sisters, I can go on and on but una go say I dey lie. Sometimes I feel so sad when I read women's stories here and how their husbands treat them. It's really heartbreaking. My prayer is for God to heal all our homes because even mine, we have our own upheavals, with a child that has special needs that challenges us daily and financially. But mostly I pray for those of you seeking life partners, that God will bless you with men after His own heart. He did it for me. He can do it for you. That thing called love exists, although you will be tested but it will come. Have faith. And for every home represented here, strange women will not see your husbands, the adulteress will not come near your door, Delilah will have no business with your Samson! Frustration and destruction will be the portion of any woman who sets her sights on your beloved! God bless all mamalettes!

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