Anonymous asked 5 days ago
My husband and I have been married for 5 years and we have been trying to conceive. My younger sister got married last year and last month told us that she is pregnant. Honestly since I heard the news I have been happy for her despite my private struggles. Last week we even went together to look at baby things. However what surprised me was when she said “you need to get pregnant so our kids can grow up together.” I told her if God wills. But to be honest I wasnt happy. My hubby and I have been to 3 fertility clinics and I have done IVF multiple times but to no avail. It is not as if we havent been trying. But what is even making me so sad now is my mother, she called me asking me why I am continuing to disgrace her, all her mates are now grandmothers and she is tired of people still asking her if I am now pregnant. She also said the grandchildren need to come now so she can know them before anything happens to her. To be honest, I have been very depressed since then. I have done everything possible to get pregnant, taken medication, IVF, herbal treatments, prayed, fasted etc. It is not as if I don’t want children to come, they have just not come. How do I cope with all of these pressures. My husband has been supportive but now the people that should understand the most are now the ones making it worse. How would I cope when my sister’s baby comes and my hands are still empty. Has anyone been through this before? How did you cope?
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Amarachi answered 5 days ago
The God that answers by fire will answer your prayers and bless you with your own children. I pray you conceive before the end of this year and be in good health throughout, you will have a safe delivery of the twins. Both you and your twins(boy and girl) shall be in good health without any problems at all. As a twin, i give you my blessings. I’ll add your intentions to my petition and ask St. Jude, the patron of hope to pray to God on your behalf. Just go to church and thank God (WITH FAITH) for answered prayers. God bless you. Amen
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blessing answered 4 days ago
I was in your shoe two years ago, I was even called ogbanje( marine spririt). I was so depressed that I cried my eyes out. But God for God and a good hubby who listens to advise. I told him to try and check his sperm count and also be taking drugs that will boost it up even if is ok, I also but preseed for myself, because I normally most times after sex I normally leak, I.e the sperm will pour out. So with preseed the sperm was able to stay. Sweet heart it didn’t end there o, my hubby and I decided to fast and pray. During the fast, I took a step of faith and go the market to shop for baby wears, I told God with tears in my eyes that this clothes I bought I won’t wear it on dummies or give it away as a gift. GOD OUT THOSE MANY BABIES OF YOURS JUST GIVE ME ONE. That was all my dear. I started enjoying sex with my hubby and I forget about getting pregnant. All I know was the God I prayed to was not dead, deaf or blind. So after some weeks I started feeling sick o and gbam that was it I don get belle. After 9 months my princess arrived safe n sound.
Note, I was having a PCOS,( irregular menstruation). But jehova over do did it. Yours is small. Untill you take drastic steps of FAITH. You might not get what you want. I pray for this day it is your turn to testify in Jesus name. Amen.
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