Mamas please what do I do?
I got married to my husband 5 years ago. We had our first child within 1 year of marriage and 2 children came afterwards. While I was chubby even before we got married with each pregnancy I put on so much weight. Last year my dad died of a heart attack he was also a big man. My dad had just turned 60. This was a reality check for me, so I went to a lab and did
did a health test and blood work, found that I had high cholesterol and high blood pressure.
 
I then decided to join a gym in my area and started eating healthy and within a year I had lost 30kg and now a size 10 from a size 16. I was never even this slim in university. I have had to buy new clothes, I am even wearing makeup and paying more attention to my appearance. I feel happier and healthier but now my problem is my new look is intimidating my husband. When I first started the weight loss journey he was very encouraging. Now he always asks me who I talk with at work, when I receive a call he wants to know who it is or he will come into the room to listen to my conversation, he is always going through my phone which is not passworded. If we are out and any man looks at me he will ask me why I am giving them eye. Now I don’t even know what to do. I have told him I would never cheat. I have a husband and children that I love and care so much about. He wouldn’t accept this though, he is saying that now I am more attractive to men outside and I am getting all this attention because I am now lepa and it would cause me to not be faithful now that other men were attracted to me.
My husband told me that he wants me back to my old self, when he didn’t have to worry about other men and we could be comfortable together. 
Can someone please tell me what to do? I am so confused now.
 

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