Question Category: General My husband asked me to resign my job for our marriage to work
Anonymous asked 3 days ago

I need your advice. I got this job before we got married and he knows the kind of job I am doing, that I am not always around. I do come every weekends and at times, will tell him to come down if I am not chanced. It will be 3 years since we got married with a kid. Most of the responsibilities were put on me, in terms of house rent, I will put down half of it, school fees of our child I paid, food stuffs, child clothes etc. Not that he is not working but he is not earning much from the work he does and to make it worse, he's not caring at all. He asked me to resign for our marriage to work out well and I asked him that if I resign, where will I get money from since that's the only source of my income. For saying such, he fought me, threw abusive words at me. Later, he promised to set up a business for me. He said he has been saving all this while for my business. I agreed because don't want to ruin my marriage. 6 months After resigning, he refused to give me money for my business and anytime I ask, na fight. Although, I saved for myself while working without telling him. Now, I am using the money I saved for my business which I told him I applied for a loan. He said I am on my own that he doesn't have money. Now, the landlord asked us to leave but instead to get another apartment, he decided to go back to his parents house n I disagreed. Mama's, what should I do.

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