In February due to the series of stories I have been seeing here I decided to check my husbands cell phone for messages.
I discovered that he had been spending a lot of time messaging on whatsapp a new coworker of his. My husband and I have are free and open. We know each other’s passwords and are free to check each others phones.
I found messages between the two of them that were not proper for 2 married people and I confronted him. He apologized and said he would slowly cut off contact with her.
I checked his phone some times after that and noticed that their messages had reduced and it was all about work.  and he’d just hand it over to me. The messages were so little and all about work. This went on for several months. But I feel that something didn’t feel right, it was “too clean.”
So last week I decided to check the inboxes of his different social media accounts and saw that he has been sending her messages on snapchat. I did not even know what that was until last week. It seems they chat every day. For example from their conversation he will message her when he wakes up, when he’s driving to work, while they are at work, while he his at home, even after I go to bed. Every single day. From their messages I dont know if they are having a sexual affair but it seems that there is relationship going on. When I confronted him he said she’s been having problems in her marriage and he was trying to be a good friend. He has been apologising and saying there is nothing going on between the 2 of them.

Last night based on the advice of my friend, I text the lady and in the text told her  that I think it is completely inappropriate for her as a married lady to be in constant contact with a married man who also has a child. I asked her how she would feel if this was happening to her and that she should take it into consideration next time she messages him. I have not hear back from her and today my hubby went to work, so I know they will see each other and talk about it.

My question is what do I do now? Clearly he will start deleting his messages and start using other methods to chat with her. How do I stop this?

 

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