Question Category: Trying To Conceive My fiance wants me to get pregnant before marriage
Anonymous asked 3 days ago

Mamas please don't judge me, I know we have all done one terrible thing or the other. My fiance and I have been going out for 6 years now, he finally proposed but he wants me to get pregnant before he marries me. I am scared because I don't think that is possible, I had an abortion about 8 years ago that nearly cost me my life and since then I have not gotten pregnant. I actually haven't been trying to but now that I need it so much, it isn't coming. My fiance and I have been making love almost twice a day, every day because we want to have a baby so bad. I asked my fiance why he wants me to get pregnant before marriage and he said because he doesn't want to end like his great uncle and his wife. He said they have been trying for 20 years now. I'm sad right now, I don't now how to tell him I had a risky abortion that nearly took my life. Please mamas advice me, what do I do. My friends said I should fake pregnancy but I don't want to start my marriage with deceit. Please help me. 

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