Of recent my husband became friends with a lady that works in his office and recently moved into our compound. Ideally I should not be concerned because She is married with two kids too. But her husband lives abroad. But the issue is their friendship goes beyond her following him to work everyday. Sometimes he will do errands for her. Last month he took her and her children to the doctor, infact she called him at midnight saying one of her sons was sick. He also Whatsapps her and they speak on the phone for a long time regularly in the evenings, despite the fact that they speak on the way to work and at work everyday. In one she said, you are scared of your wife, lol . In another one she said what are you eating, I have told you to come to my house so I can make you better food. That night I raised the issue with my hubby and told him I am not comfortable with their friendship and him taking her too work, but he just laughed it off. Now what worries me is that my husband is not the affectionate. I have to beg him to do errands for me. I says he loves me but he hardly shows it. I have to beg him to even reply to my own messages. Last night I told him that because he cant stay away from her, I will go to her house and ask her to stay away from my husband. He said I should go ahead. So today when we got back from church I went to her house, told her my mind. Told her to find another way to get to work and that she should call and whatsapp her husband and not mine. After I left she called him so now my husband is angry at me. Was I wrong? What should I do now?

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