Question Category: General He made his mother his next of kin
Mamalette Support Staff asked 2 days ago

I have been married for over 10 years now traditionally and I have four kids, three girls and a boy, I just found out that my marriage to my husband has no meaning, he used his mom as next of kin and has refused to register my kids under the government as his type of work demands in case of incasity. Recently, my mum inlaw has become a pain in my neck that she visits in unannounced, she came three weeks ago when I was preparing for work and there was no food I told her she said I should not worry only to find out that my kids were not at home when I came back, I asked my neighbours who they usually stay with and they said they saw my MIL with my husbands brother and a lady going out of the house, I pretended as if I did not know and my husband did not tell me, it was later he now told me that she called his brother's girlfriend to bring food for her, I told my husband that I was not happy about it n I will respect those who respects me, His siblings visits without telling me in my absence I noticed of late that if he receives his mothers call he will change towards me, yesterday I brought up the issue of partwoing my kids(registering) he became angry, I am so angry n confused cos of my husband family towards me, he has refused to marry me legally, pls advice me before I take a wrong step Note am IBO he is Yoruba. I am becoming tired of every thing

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