To the Mamalette whose husband keeps spending on others. This is my story. I met my hubby in Dec 2009. He was very caring and generous to me. I didn't know how buoyant he was until he took me to his house for the very first time. This was about 1 year after. We finally tied the knot in 2013. I then noticed that he was father Christmas. He has 4 younger brothers, who did nothing but take from him. Hubby gave one money 4 business abroad, yet he always came back broke. He Even had to help him marry the lady he impregnated, and took care of the delivery and school fees of the child. He opened a business for the next one which crumbled in one year. He also married the lady this one impregnated and took care of everything. He sent the last 2 abroad to study, one got deported and the other tricked him for 4yrs until his friend who resides there was able to tell him that the guy was not in schl. He stopped sending money that was how that one came back. All 4 of them were still dependent on him. All these happened b4 we got married. When I started talking he would say they are his siblings and he can't just abandon them. The shops and land he bought he distributed to them. I managed to pressure him to finish the building he abandoned for many yrs. In 2014, the worst happened, the company he was working with packed up. It was so bad that even food was a problem. We were struggling. It was rent from that building that kept us from begging. Since there was no more money to take the story became "he is spending all the money on his wife, he went and married expensive wife" I forgot to mention he trained me in medical school, I'm graduating this yr by the grace of God. Then they started quarreling me. I almost quit. One even threatened to beat me in Hubby's presence. When hubby challenged him he told him to shut up. They later teamed up with their wives and started insulting us, calling hubby "bastard elder brother". They told pple how stingy hubby was, how he had never done anything 4 them and how I was the cause. Those were the darkest days of My life. I even regretted marrying into that family. Hubby was so heart broken. He kept lamenting that he should have listened to me. We prayed and God heard us. Last yr hubbys friend linked him to a better job. The shock was visible on their faces when hubby broke down our house and built a duplex. Bought 2 new cars and many other stuff. Next I saw was they started becoming friendly with hubby. Started calling to greet him. But the man don vex. He's very conservative now. I believe all that happened to prove to hubby that they were not worth it. He always says he wished he had met me earlier. God has blessed us again. Hope somebody learns from my story. Have a nice day.

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