Hello house, please I have a serious issue I need urgent advise on. Hubby and I have been married for 8 years and we have a kid together, hubby said it is better to have one kid that we can give the world to than many that we would suffer so we stopped at 1. We have been having issues for some time now, almost 2 years now because hubby feels I am working myself too much and he doesn’t like the fact that I work hard. He asked me to quit my job that my job is coming in between us and I told him I can’t that my job is everything to me and he said we have more than enough to start up a business of our own and not work for anybody else but I refused that I am not business oriented so since then he has been picking on everything I do and we have not made love to each other in months because he hardly even comes home these days. There are times he stays out for days and not tell me anything. I told him we need to work on our marriage and he said yes that the only remedy for is to go into an open marriage that he feels we both need space from each other. When he said it, I asked him what he meant by that and he said it simply means that we are free to see other people but not entitled to act as hubby and wife. He said that way, I would have more time for my career and he won’t feel bad for staying out much. This was just last week and I am starting to feel like this is a trap that hubby is setting for me because since he came up with this open marriage thing, he has been coming home frequently, even to the extent of cooking and dropping out daughter off at school. Please mamas, help me, what do you think of this? What do you recommend I do. I love my hubby, I can’t even imagine cheating on him or him cheating on me because I would just die. Please what do u you advise I do?

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