Please what do I do?
I put to bed my last baby in October, and of a truth, this baby has been a blessing to me, in all ways. To cut story short, when I was pregnant of this baby, a boy, I would say all doors was closed towards me financially, couldn’t imagine what happened then, the doors of favor closed! To crown it all, my husband didn’t help matters, I will request for this, his response, no money. I request for that, no money, my breast got out of size, oga give me money to buy new one, no money. To make my hair, no money, everyday while I was pregnant, he always managed to squeeze out 200 or 150 for my feeding, I will like ask, this money is nothing to me in this state, his response no money but manage that. This is a man I ve caught on several occasions where he eats delicacies with five alive, I will act as if I didn’t see him just for peace to reign. Mind you, not that I’m not working, I am, but isn’t he suppose to care for me in that state then I add my own. But NO! even the 200 or 150 doesn’t come everyday. Now the baby is out, people are coming to congratulate me with gifts and cash, especially cash! The straw that broke the camel’s back was while I was 5month preggy, he got a job with an oil firm, now his company Co workers contributed 10k each,to congratulate their Co worker’s wife who put to bed and they were 42 in number, you know how much is it, he knew they were coming, he left the house for me to entertain them from my purse, but he never knew such amount will come up cos he’s still new in the system. Luckily for me, all didn’t come, only delegates were sent, and I was able to entertain them. He is into 2 big clubs, the first club came with 150k while the second came with 180k. Now the problem now on ground is that he said I should give him the whole money, that it was his people that came on that mission. I refused totally, quickly sent for my sister who helped me to deposit it at the bank. I had wanted to stop my teaching job a long time ago and start up a biz that will give me time for myself and also to manage my kids, oga said no money that I was working, I should save my peanuts from teaching to start up bizness. Now God has opened the doors, but my husband wants to shut the door. Please mamas and papas help a totally confused mother, whose husband has refused anything from her cos of this. He no longer eats my food, answer my greetings etc. But not moved with all that. I’m troubled and confused! HELP!

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