Question Category: General I'm broken and confused.
Anonymous asked 5 days ago

I don't want to do it with him yet but he's feelings and hunger for it are pushing us to do it. Am 29 while my Prince Charming is 36, we met December 2015 and courted for almost a year before our traditionally marriage took place 3 weeks ago. Yes, God has blessed me with a good and God fearing man though not financially buoyant but am okay with that cause money is not really the main thing in marriage. We are both true Christians and saved souls and we don't want to have sex until after our church wedding! My problem now is whenever we are together especially in a lonely place, his thing will be aroused. He says the thing started when we met and it got worst when we finished our Trad. Mind u, this my man is a virgin, when I said a virgin, I mean a pure one! He has never knew any woman nor dated any woman since his life because he is devoted christian and a saved soul of which many call him Pastor due to his life style but he's not a Pastor and we attend the same church. One day, we were together and he started touching, romancing and kissing me which I was unable to resist and his thing aroused, that day we had almost done it if not that part of me was still very conscious but on his own side he was totally in for it, as in he has loosed control. I was able to see how big his thing is the day and he even said is over 6inches! I come fear o! Na my body e go dey enter every day? Cause, I think he would like love making like kilode if we finally start it! Even whenever he thinks about me or we talk on phone, his thing will stand. I don't know how or what we can be doing for us not to enter into temptation cause we opted for church wedding and our church can't wed us if we eventually do it and I get pregnant along the line and we can't afford to bear the shame either! We can't stop being together because we are planning our wedding and we can't talk about it in public places like fast foods cause my hubby stammers a bit and hardly talks in a low tone. What are your suggestions on this mamas?

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