Dear mamalette, my husband and I separated a year into our marriage and he wedded another woman, we never had a wedding when we got married, just trad, he has always used whatever I confide in him on in secret against me, accused me of trying to kill him which I keep wondering how cos we have two kids and I’ll rather we live separately like he wants when angry and be a life than have him dead. Three months after he wedded this other woman he came begging for me to return, I did cos he was with my kids since I wasn’t financially able to care for them and he refused contributing to their welfare if they live with me, two months after I came back was heaven and earth, but now he has returned to his old ways, he painted me black before his people since we are of different tribe, they believed him, I also overheard him praying on one occasion we had a misunderstanding that he would have listened to his father and not bring me back but married from his village since the one he wedded is from my tribe too, I don’t know if I have any future in this home,he has also started communications with the one he wedded and not divorced yet ive suffered a lot and its affecting me psychologically, my eldest daughter is 7 and the seconded girl is 3 plus, they cry when they notice I’m crying, what should I do? I can’t care for them alone, I have no job, I dropped out of school in my third year due to family issues, and I don’t know how to leave them behind again to pick up my pieces, my parents wants me to leave them behind for the time being, but it breaks my heart to do it again, we’ve been coming together and breaking up 6 times now since we got married before we separated and after the separation, I’m broken and confused.

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