Mamalettes please be gentle with your advice. I met this man in a pepper soup joint about 11 months ago and we started hanging out. About 3 months into our relationship he revealed to me he that was married. He told me that he was not happy in his marriage and was planning on leaving his wife. He also told me how much he loved me. I know I should have quit the relationship when he confessed his marital status but i stayed because I was enjoying it. 2 months after the revelation he told me that he had left his wife but they were living together for the convenience, till she moves out. I was stupid to believe this but I did. He used to tell me how much he loved me and that he would marry him. So last week, I noticed he stopped calling me and coming to my house so I called him. He told me he couldn’t talk about much over the phone, so we agreed to meet the next day. That is when he told me that his wife was pregnant and he was ending our relationship because he had to focus on her and his child. He also told me that I should do an HIV test because his wife was positive for HIV and his test also showed he had it to. I haven’t done the test yet but since he told me, my world has turned upside down. I stopped using protection a few months ago because he made me believe him. Can you imagine he told me I infected him. I feel this man probably had this disease and did not tell me, he had been lying to me for so long. The hardest part about all this is knowing he infected me and his pregnant wife.I know I should never have got involved with a married man but it’s too late now and I will regret it for a long time. Any words of advice or anything would help.

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