Good morning Admin,i was reading some messages on my sister's phone so I beg her to add me so she did, please I need your advice plz help me out, I met my husband 2015 January through my cousins friend, he saw my picture he pressurized my cousin and her friend that he wants to marry me, we didn't date for long met him in January 2015 that was when he proposed to me and I accepted to marry him . we did all the proper introductions, prepations for the wedding started,then my husband started complaining that they where owing him his salary for some months and this complain started coming in a week to our wedding cause I started asking him what was happening that we have not done so many things, then I decided to bring in the little money I have I started to use it to prepare for the wedding ceremony but I told him that I can only support him for the white wedding, so went ahead to Wed, I never knew he went to borrow money from his sister (#100,000),he didn't tell me. We got married in August 2015, only for the person he introduced to me as is Sister happened to be some he just knows as a friend, and the woman started to say the #100,000, My husband used to pay my dairy that I will pay the money I told her that I can't pay that money, so q that means I am the one that marry myself my husband didn't say anything. I started making my findings about his work place I found out he wasnt even working anywhere then I confronted him which he had nothing to say. He brought up the issue of me paying the 100k, which i refused to pay, he fought with me and left the house for four days he finally came back. I do all the billings in the house, he started saying we should move to one room apartment, I told him I can't that I can't live in one room and threatened me that he will move to one room apartment I say I ll not follow him bcoz I ll always move forward but I keep calm six months after marriage my husband has not slept with me I beg him to sleep with me and he can't even give me money to cook food he does nothing drives my car I don't border about that . i got home from work and asked him what can he do he said he can do farming so I talked to my boss to pls borrow me money so I can use to help my husband he borrowed me and they ll be taking it out of my salary little by little so I gave my husband the he bought the land for the farm and he started to cultivate 2 months later my boss have problems he was arrested by efcc, and we where not payed for 4months my husband's farm started to harvest in tomatoes, my husband refused to give me money to cook food and he started keeping late night and he complains over everything i didnt complain oooo. So I was ill my husband left me and travelled to Benin without telling me. All this time i didnt realise he was packing some of his stuffs outta the house , when I realized I collected my car key I realized my husband has changed the papers of the car to his name, he never cared about me or sleep with me for 6months he has not touched me.I went for a program in my office, I came back only to discover he has moved out of the house its been 2months now he left, I ve called his family members none is picking my father calls and they don't pick their calls so I decided to visit is uncle only for the uncle to say my husband refused to see him so I should relax, and our pastor too has been calling him he will lie that he is in warri today and tomorrow Benin is avoiding everyone he took the wedding certificate with him he broke my box where I kept it and also my daddy is tired and wants me to come back to our family house please I need your advice and please don't put my name or pic am really Heart broken about the whole thing I have not given birth am 37years old pls admin Post it I need all ur advice is been hell for me

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