Dear mamalette please help me post this, I got pregnant for a man of 35yrs, though it came too early, we dated for just 4month before I discover I am pregnant, I told him and he stated misbehaving telling me he use to dated ladies for years and they never tell him they got pregnant for him that we only dated for 4months and am telling him am almost 2months pregnant he was caring and gentle before I got pregnant although I didn’t knw too much of him, he said he don’t need any baby from any woman for now that I should abort it I refuse and told him off, he said he have been having relationship before he knew me and he didn’t allow any of them to get pregnant for him (he used drugs whenever he makes love with them, I mean traditional one) he said because he likes me that why he didn’t use it for me, I went to his parents and sibling to inform them, they all welcome me and told me all atrocities he committed with ladies in the home town before he elope to another city where we meet I now discover he is just irresponsible and all he want from a woman is just to sleep with them collect their cash and not ready for any commitment up till now he insist on abortion and now d pregnancy is 5month now am facing so much difficulty from my family member too because he refuse to come and see them, he told my mum on phone that my mum is looking for a man to put on liability on he said I think am wise by getting pregnant for him thinking he will marry me, he said lot of things to my mum … And me blackmailing me to his family even though they ignore all his sayings because they knw he is good for nothing and irresponsible they told me and my mum that he is under a spell that they should try and help them pray for him am tired and frustrated right now… He said that when the child grow up he will come looking for him, he even said when ever he become rich he will come for his child he never call or send any money to me he didn’t even knw how am feeding or where I live he said d baby in d womb is a devil and causing argument between us, since we didn’t av any clash before dis pregnancy, he said he doesn’t want any goodies the child is bringing, he said he doesn’t even like dark skin ladies that he always go for fair ladies he even told my mum that he already av his own wife and she’s pregnant and she is the one feeding him (which we all knw is a lie, its just one of his strategy of letting him be) his family want me and d baby but he didn’t want me or the baby, he said I don’t av work I am not a graduate and I got pregnant. they told me how he use to collect money from ladies promising them he will marry them and later change to them and when they discover that he is just using them they will go take his name to herbalist so that they can collect their money from them, he jokingly told me of one lady that went to harbalist because of him (that was when we were still in good terms) and the man told d lady to go see his mum before she can get her money back and she did what d man told her the following day he provide d money, the last time I saw him was when d pregnancy was 2months old. Right now I wish to leave this country, I want to relocate to where I will forget everything and move on since my family and mum are not even helping matters, have been praying for God to send helper to me so I can travel out of this country and start a new life I just want to leave this country, even if I give birth I am ready to give the baby to family that can take care of d child and start a new life, please advise thanks.

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