I have a wonderful husband that any woman would wish for. He is a good father, provides for us and is faithful to me. No marriage is perfect and we have had our issues but nothing serious.
We both work in corporate environments. Now my issue is while I’ve felt myself attracted to men at work in the past,  it’s never been this strong before. Now I find myself falling for coworker in my department and this is the first time I ever felt this way about a man, not even my husband has made me feel this way. This my coworker is very attractive, very friendly, and I just enjoy being around him. He started working at my company just 6 months ago and we have been working very closely together.
I am always smiling and excited when he is talking to me and I think even my colleagues have started to notice this too. Sometimes when he is talking he will put his hand my on shoulder or my hand. The sexual attraction is strong. Beyond work I try not to communicate with him, we don’t have each other as friends on social media and don’t see each other outside of work. I know he is married to but he doesnt wear a ring. The way I feel right now if he pushes me I know I can easily succumb. I am not ready to throw my marriage away because I know Nigerian men can’t handle a cheating wife but how do I get rid of this feeling and the sexual tension?

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