Mamalettes I am so hurt. Last night my husband told me I am too fat, in fact that I am disgusting and that he no longer wants to even make love to me. I am just 33 years old, am short and weigh 98kg. I wear a size 18. While I am a bigger than I would like to be and have in the past tried exercising and dieting and managed to get down to about 80kg but before I knew it I had put on the weight again after i had our 3rd baby. While I am fat, I do not think I am so shapeless that I am disgusting. When my husband met me I was 23 and lepa. But now 3 children and 10 years later I will never be slim again. Am I being unreasonable in being really hurt by these comments?? It was not really the fact that he said I am fat but the choice of the word disgusting and the fact that he said he does not want to make love to me. It is as though he cannot love me unless I am thin. We have been married for 8 years and I though love is about much more than how much I weigh. I have been crying since he told me.

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