Thank you for all for your advice some of you didn't understand the post and was quick to judge but it's OK it's what you get from trying to seek advice from the experienced sometimes in life u make mistakes to learn from it. maybe I didn't put it well all I knew when we first met was his nick name and we didn't pretend we didn't know each other before and sometimes in life u may meet some people that are strongly manipulative and selfish with sense that u wouldn't know d pit u are falling into just like those men out there that deceive a girl u love her but it's just to get her so was he... Just like those men out there that deceive a lady he wants to marry only to get her and it was all a lie so was he and he had his way with it because he didn't start playing recently, he is d type of man that will promise to open a bigness when he marries u but after marriage u will bow to whatever he wants y am I saying this he is smart and manipulative but with sense so this is not d first thing u notice. D first thing u notice is a good and determined man sometimes u don't see these things when u fall a victim. Please I didn't just open my legs before now I was in a no sex relationship then d guy got a girl pregnant and I moved on for those of u saying I shouldn't call it a forceful sex because I enjoyed it u weren't there it was a date rape of u know what that is and after that I left angrily and stopped talking with him I just relocated to d place and decided to forget but he kept apologising and that it wasn't about sec and he didn't know what came over him and he likes me so much I forgave him and DE idea to see him again that is how the relationship started he wasn't all bad like I said we were friendly I only thought the relationship will move forward but he picked the perfect time when he was down and his mom was due for surgery to tell me he didn't want anything serious for now I didn't argue because he was going thru a trying time and I felt maybe it will get serious and love grows... After a while I began setting my priorities straight and gradually was setting boundaries but it wasn't easy for me to decide cos I liked him. But I made d decision to leave if he can't appreciate or value u and if he is not a man of his words. I think he didn't take d fact that I moved on so easily lightly hence he wants to date my sister seriously I have moved on and I don't like him at all but y didn't he see someone else y my sister am not jealous.. He may have changed y I have to ask if I should tell my sister is because on certain occasions in d past she will take my word for granted and believe an outsider she is a bit self centered expecially when it has to do with her like if am sick she will blame me for being sick like I wish myself to be sick all below she had to come and check on me. Or then if am sick she wouldn't say a word or show concern hence am two sided about telling her. He is manipulative and a smooth talker. Just for d fact that we had an u serious 2 year relationship where since my work took all my time I didn't have anyone's time but his and when we lost touch yes he tried to reach me I had also moved. I picked d perfect time to get out of the relationship just that I got pregnant that was it I saw him again and I fell for his smooth talk cos he sounded nice and I found out that this guy just wants fun an die sees me as well someone who wants something serious. Yes he may have changed but am not so sure he may tell my sister casually and she wouldn't mind cos like I said she doesn't take me seriously am d least important thing to her I just feels she deserves better but she will say who am I to tell her who to date that Is my fear. My mistake I fell in his trap but am glad I found myself by myself and picked myself up just like toke makinwa I am becoming.

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