My wife of 8 years and mother of my 2 kids is beautiful and caring. I am not afraid to say she has been a very good wife, generous, looks after the family well and gets on with my family. My parents treat her like she's their own daughter and she gets along with everybody. She is not fat or overweight although the signs of pregnancy are visible on her body and is still very beautiful but she no longer moves me.
Now my problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. When she tries to initiate sex, I'm get turned off, it is as if she repulses me and so I don't want to touch her. I don't even want to kiss her. It’s not that she smells or is dirty but Im just no longer attracted to her. I see women here complain about this issue with their husbands and I know Im not alone. It has not always been this way. I used to love making love to her and our sex life was really good. It’s like the attraction just expired. I think she has noticed because of recent she has been trying so hard to exercise, watch her diet, buy lingerie, take care of herself. But I look at her and I just feel nothing. She might as well be my sister. Now the problem is that I am attracted to other women and want to have sx with them but I don't want to cheat on her. I would love to be attracted to my wife again which is why I am sharing this. I'm really hoping there are some other people here who have gone through something similar. I really hoping to read advice from people who understand where I'm coming from. Has anyone else had this issue?

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