Question Category: General I am having problems with my sister in laws
Anonymous asked 5 days ago

My problem is my sister inlaws,I have bn married for close to four years without a child and am still believing God for one,did I mention my hubby is based abroad and comes bk occasionally,when hubby and I got married they suggested he shuldnt get an apartment for me becos I dnt have a child yet,that I shuld still be at my mums,hubby didn’t listen to them he got me a place to stay so he now said I shuld get someone to leave with me,they said it wus not necessary I dint even answer them I then got a lil girl of about eight years then to live with me,she’s very smart and has bn like a daughter to me,did I mention I have five sis in laws three are separated from their husbands and thery are all back to their mother,so one in particular left her hubby with a girl of four years,so last year we travelled for Xmas they all saw my girl and became very jealous of her and started asking me questions like how is she related to u,what school does she attend,how much is her school fees e.t.c,didn’t know they had plans,so when we went bk to our Base after the Xmas hols they now called and said the Lil girl will come spend hols at my place I wus like know problem,the mum brought the girl over during the long vacation I enrolled both the Lil girl and my girl in summer lesson after about two weeks her mum went bk to her Base and called me from there and said I shuld look at her plans that she wants the girl to start school at my place as in she should start leaving with me,without even thinking it over I told her no that she shuld train her only child and that moreover she’s still a baby and that she knows I work I won’t even have time for her( this is a woman my hubby gave one million naira since last year to start up something since then till now she hasnt started doing anythingjust busy buying the lastest China cloth in the market)next thing she cut the phone on me,I waited for her to come pick her child she never did,meanwhile she didn’t even tell her brother my hubby all this oh,I waited and waited she never came to pick the baby so I shopped for the Lil girl as a baby that came for holiday ,on one of the public holiday I took her back to her mother,she didn’t even thank me,neither wus she greatfull for the things I bought for her child I went back she never called to ask how my journey went ,since then there’s know kind of insults I haven’t gotten from them,my question now is please wus I wrong to her rejected the Lil girl?

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jackreece answered 3 days ago

TO ME U WERE NT WRONG MUST U TAKE CARE OF HER CHILD BECAUSE U DNT HAVE YOUS YET, ABEG MAKE SHE TAKE CARE OF HER PIKIN,NA U GO TAKE CARE OF HER PIKIN MAKE SHE DEY WALK EVERY WERE, SWTY ABEG NO SEND DEM JUST PRAY FOR UR TO CM BACK OR BETTER STILL TAKE U ALONG WITH HIM SO U CAN START HAVING UR OWN CHILDREN AND TRAIN THEM D WAY U WANT.

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