My husband and I have found out we are expecting our 4th baby, and we have just been told the baby is another girl. We already have 3 daughters I feel  lucky and blessed but my happiness has turned to sadness as my husband said he cannot accept another daughter. I cannot understand his feelings, as we are Yoruba people. I love all my children, regardless of their gender.
He even suggested aborting this baby because it is a girl. I find this totally unacceptable, and is something I would never ever consider. I am heartbroken that he would even suggest this. Surely this in not normal behaviour. I would be grateful for any advice. I have been very upset since he told me this and cannot stop crying....