Mamalettes please advise needed here. I am 25yrs old married with 3kids while hubby is 33 years. Something happened on Valentines day being 14th Feb. I went to the salon to fix my hair in the morning of dat day. I came back and called hubby to know where he is.. (he was at home when I left to fix my hair) He said, he went for one occasion somewhere but will be back soon that I should dress up, he's taking me out, so I quickly ran to the boutique and bought a new cloth that will match the "Day". hubby came back as he said and was with friends downstairs, so I wore my clothe and make up. NB: I am in training to be a make up Artist*** My house helps where like Aunty you look Waoh!! and my very long hair is superb...so I went downstairs. Everyone was like you really killed it for today...only for hubby to say what kind of make up is this? I look like an embedded corpse...that it is only old women dat fix such make up..if I don't remove it,I will start coming with my own car and he will go with his and get chair for me...everyone drinking in d beer parlour start looking at me...The next tin,one of his friend said I look so Artificial that am too young to apply make up and one woman sitting there said I should go up and clean my face since hubby don't like make up and also pack my hair..I was so ashamed and embarrassed...my eyes were filled with years as I get up and was going inside hubby shouted.. Nne! Please clean up ok...Am waiting...I came up and undress and was crying bitterly..cos even if he don't like d make up he should have call me aside rather than embarrassing me in d presence of everyone.. He later called and I picked and told him am not going again dat I rather go to a vigil and worship there than follow him again..he started saying so I can't joke with my wife? Nawa o!..I cut d phone and he called bck and I told him am not going...dat am going to Vigil..he angrily told me not to try dat rubbish next time and left to a joint to drink with his friends..I quickly dress up and went to Vigil..I came bck yesterday morning and since then he has been ignoring me..so dis morning i woke him up and try to communicate with him...he said he don't want to talk with me that I should be myself...and leave d bed and sleep on a floor..I got angry and told him I will do some tin he won't like and he said I should go ahead that he don't care...This is a man that hardly make love to me,may be once or none in a month yet I endured it and manage...No communication yet I try to joke with him so atleast he can chat with me atimes on d bed...But he can talk for Africa when outside..he hates communication..he will rather say he don't hv strength to talk... Am planning of giving him space to my parents house so atleast I can be happy,am really heartbroken cos am suppose to be d one feeling hurt but I gathered the impectus to communicate but he turned me down and said I should do wot I like...this is not d first time he's acting this way when ever he offends me..may be giving him space for him to feel my worth..he's jus so proud of himself and am really hurt... please mamalette advice me on what to do now...# I want to go to my parents and rest..

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