Please I need help before I have an emotional breakdown!
Before we got married He told me about his 5 years relationship with this lady, how she broke up with him and made me realise that it has ended 4 good.
This lady got married about 4 years ago but is TTc. By coincidence, we live in the same town and she even work in the same place with my husband (i think she even got the job through him).
About 6 months ago, I found that they’re dwelling in the past in a very sensitive way that hurts me so much…
I hardly go thru his fone unless it’s for something very necessary , but there was this day I just found myself on their chat and I regretted it, i really wish i didn’t but I also think I was lucky to see it before things finally go wrong and irreversible. there were All sorts of  messages that showed that they were still professing love for eachother and it feels like while they were together all over again, how they look forward to seeing eachother everyday, she sent him a pic where she was almost naked and asked my loving husband to delete after viewing which he did!…They even talked about how they couldn’t wait to see each other when he travelled to see our child and by coincidence, my husband cut short his stay!
I cried myself to sleep and had to find him an excuse for why I was cranky that night.
Although I have a good rapport with the lady because i trust my husband very much,because he is a very nice and loving one, he doesn’t make me lack anything and he’ll do anything to see me smile. In fact, alot of friends envy our union… so I thought nothing like that could happen. Moreso that they broke up and she got married even before he met me. She also relates with me well, even visited me a couple of times, not knowing that she was flirting with my husband.

I summoned up courage and talked to my husband about it, He was really surprised and embarrassed that i know that much, he begged me to forgive him and told me they didn’t have anything physical. He told me he didn’t know how he fell for such  even cried and promised he won’t do such anymore. I have forgiven him and i think he  has improved on it  but they still talk and meet at work and this pisses me off, I’m emotionally disturbed about it and I even have nightmares and mood swings relating to this issue and its affecting the trust i have for my husband. Now I can’t even stand this woman, anytime I see her, my day becomes bitter and i start thinking about all that happened, at a point i even felt like reporting her to her husband if I had d means.
Positive and kind advice from the mamalette family on how to heal fast and forget this issue will be welcomed

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