Please advise
My husband is the only male out of d family of 8 and he is the last child. We are legally married and we have 2 children. Anytime we have misunderstanding he threatens to beat me to a pulp and throw my tins out, well he has beaten me twice (1st was 2weeks after I gave birth to my ist child and 2nd was 2months when I was pregnant of my 2nd child). He said he wants his house to be the way it was before he got married and started having children,(very clean) so I requested for house help,he said he doesn't want any. Last month he told me not to bathe our baby in our room inside his bathing plastic(baf)  again,he said he doesn't like the way the room is DURING the process, I pleaded to clean up AFTER he vehemently refused,I obeyed, so I started using the bathroom without his bathing plastic  Today, I was bathing my baby of 7months in the bathroom he asked y he was not in his bathing plastic, I told him that if he wanted it he wouldn't have driven me from the room that I cannot use bathing plastic while in the bathroom, he went to bring it I refused using it. That was what caused the quarrel. The next thing was he went to my parents' house, he brought my mother to our house and started telling my mother that he was going to throw my load out the next time the house is scattered,he doesn't want to know if the children scattered it and will beat me if I disobey him. Now,how do I deal with this issue? He is killing my self esteem, he doesn't want me to talk or air my view, I must just do what he want me to do.

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