Before my husband and I got married, we had a really wild sex life. We had sex several times a day and this continued months after our wedding. But it didn’t take long after living together for a year for this to stop, though, for a number of reasons, pregnancy, breastfeeding, his job and now it’s maybe once a month, often with me left unsatisfied.

Hubby works late nights at a very physically demanding job and he comes home physically and emotionally exhausted every day, and sex just isn’t something he has the energy for.
He also doesn’t go to bed with me. I fall asleep much earlier than him and he stays up and plays video games after I go to sleep. My problem is that I don’t know how to seduce him now that it’s not coming naturally. Before, we didn’t have to try  and be in the mood we were just always turned on. Now that effort has to be made. I’ve talked to him a few times about our dead sex life, and I think it’s just not something that bothers him. It makes me sad, though. I feel undesirable and it really breaks my heart and I don’t know what to do.

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