I have a male cousin that likes coming to my house and it's not like he keeps me company he just comes to enjoy his own time,when I first got married he will come with his girlfriend they will stay 3/5days and go to the point that they made it a habit now my issue is he sent me a message sometimes back in January that he wants to come over to my place I said no chance and lied the house was rich and we don't need additional expenses, finally he sent anothera message in Feb that he wants to just come Friday and go back Sunday till now as I type he's still with me, my problem now is he barely does anything in the house, he just wakes up and stays inside the room ooo except for when i call him to cum take his food or maybe he's going to SCH cos he's an extra year std,at a point i complained he seldomly now engage in d housework whc i find annoying bCOs i HV a baby at hand dat barely allow me do anything except she's a slip....how can i have a cousin of 28yrs with me and i will be telling him what to do.The tin is now i am confused i don't know how to tell to go bCOs i don't want him to see me as not accommodating NB: he's recent stay he didn't inform me he will be in my place for this long neither did he Tk permission from my hubby.... Pls help me out cos i ve given him attitude yet that's wen he wont still get.i am tired my hubby is not cool with it bt doesn't want to be seen as a bad person or not a com dating either pls i need advice on how to tell him to go
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