Hello Mamalettes , please a friend really need advice. We work together in a school and she is in her 30's , recently she told me a guy that has been asking for her hand in marriage for over four years now. Have been coming again that she should accept her and even asked her to tell parents that he is really ready and they should give her list for their traditional marriage. Upon hearing this my colleague gave in and accepted to marry him, and they get intimate for the first time. After telling me all this I took her to my father in the Lord for prayer, so my pastor asked her to bring the guy. She told the guy and he said he will go but he had emergency work in Port Harcourt, that when he comes back they will go to the church to see pastor, for 2 weeks she didn't hear from him, she calls and send texts but the guy didn't respond. So one faithful day ,she noticed the guy has change his profile picture on WhatsApp, he was carrying a cake with Happy birthday darling , she told me immediately I said this guy is married, she said it can't be cause this guy always cry and beg her before she agreed to date him. So this week now, she discovered that she is pregnant and I told her to inform the guy and the next thing the guy said he will see her , the guy came and said he discuss it with his mum and the Mum said they cant do wedding with the pregnancy cause she is a deaconess in the church ,so she should terminate the pregnancy. When she told me I said it's a lie so we started investigating the guy, so I got to know that the guy is married with a child and the wife is heavily pregnant at the moment and they recently celebrate four years wedding anniversary. She is so devastated right now, she needs Mamalettes advice please, pls no insults cause she never knew the guy was married before.thanks

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