I had to leave my abusive Husband even though we had two strong boys. It was by the Grace of God my second pregnancy survived because he beat me so much one day that neighbors had to break the door to rescue me. Hmmm. What did I not face in that house? He even threatened to stab me with a knife one other time simply because I seized the Car key so I could take our sick son to the hospital. (Car that 90% of the money came from me). He would keep late night or not even come back sometimes. If I ask why? It will be another round of beating. He would take the car out while I jump keke and buses with my kids. My family even abandoned me because because I always go back to him whenever he comes begging. I go back because I didn't want my children not to have a father. Did I mentioned that I do everything in the house. Even down to feeding, rent and the school fees. He doesn't even bring money for upkeep. I can't remember the last time he gave me money to even make my hair nor for taking care of the family. To cut the long story short I finally left him when one time I had an accident on okada because he refused to release d car key. Even when I got home with bruises and limping, he acted like he didn't see me. I was down for three days and he acted like I didn't exist not minding my injuries. The scales fell from my eyes and I left him. Now its been almost a year since I left him with my kids, yet he has not even for once bother to even ask after them or if they are feeding well. I have a good job, I rented a comfortable apartment where I now live with my two lovely kids. I am confused, do u think he will ever come back a changed person or should I just forget about him and divorce him like my family wants. If I divorce him, what about my kids, they need a father. I have a man who is really interested in marrying me even with my kids. He has even gone to meet my parents in his own to tell them. Am 28 and am scared of marriage now. What do I do? Please advice

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