A pedophile (childlover) is an adult who has a mental disorder which makes him sexually attracted to children. A Mamalette once asked for advice from our readers, she said her husband has been sexually abusing their young baby (I can’t remember the baby’s precise age) and she has tried countless times to stop him but he wouldn’t stop and she didn’t know who to talk to about such a dirty matter. “It will be like washing and drying my dirty undies in public” she said.
But if your dirty undies will start attracting maggots and become rotten if you don’t sun it in public, then you definitely should. Unknown to most of us, pedophiles are quite common in Nigeria and they usually start with children they know and who trust them enough to allow them touch them.
Unknown to most of us, pedophiles are abusers of children and are quite common in Nigeria, they usually start with children they know and who trust them enough to allow them touch them. It is not only a thing with men, there are women who are sexually attracted to boys too.
The only reason we don’t know how common it is is because mothers don’t open up, they see it as something that shouldn’t be covered and not aired in public.
And the abused children? They’ll grow up to hate their father, they might even hate their mother and as adults they’ll go through a lot of mental and sexual problems because of what they went through in the hands of their father.
If such a girl grows up to hate her mother, would you blame her. How can you say you are protecting your family’s image when your husband is destroying your children yet you do nothing, what family do you have then?
If you have a husband who is a pedophiliac and he’s not ready to get help, if you can’t get him arrested, you should take your children and flee! What problems he will put into the lives of your children, your children will wake up each day and curse you and him, is that what you want?
I read a story where a girl who had been raped since she was 2 years went to her father’s house when she was 24, shot him and shot herself. Apparently, the man had been having sex with her until she was around age 12, rejected him and ran away from home.
A pedophilia is not normal, you’ll agree that anyone in his/her normal sense will be attracted to someone in their age range, not underaged children and his own children, I mean, that’s just so sick.
What to do if you find out your husband is a pedophilia
What you should normally do is get him arrested. It is against the law (Chapter 21 section 218 of the Criminal Code Act states that: “Any person who attempts to have unlawful carnal knowledge of a girl under the age of thirteen years is guilty of a felony and is liable to imprisonment for fourteen years, with or without caning.”)
Mamalette! If you wouldn’t protect your little one who has been defiled by her father then I’ll call you weak. Even if your child has not been abused but he’s been abusing children outside, what says he still won’t? If arresting him is not an option for you, here are what you should;
- Communicate. Talk to his mother or anyone else he respects so they can persuade him to get help (like I said it’s a mental disorder).
- Get him help. Seek a psychologist, one who is versed in this field for counseling and therapy.
- Leave him! You and your children don’t deserve such a man. If he doesn’t stop, when your daughter gives birth to a female child he might still abuse her and on and on it will go like that.
- Get help for your child. Your child no doubt will be affected by this sexual abuse by her father. Mediacon is an organisation that helps abused children. Their helpline 0809 952 2487, 0805 820 7164 & 0802 333 1036. Get help fast!
Mamalette! If you know your husband sexually abuse young children or his own children and you choose to keep quiet you are wrong! And when the evil seed your husband is planting germinates, even you, yes, you, can’t uproot it.
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