When couples have been trying to conceive for sometime with no success, the blame automatically goes to the woman since it's assumed that the woman is always the one with problem. The man would brag about how very fertile he is and how he impregnated two women back in school, he just didn't allow them to keep the pregnancies. And how it's only because he's married to a wood that all his balls are not hitting home.
His family members aren't left out either, they'd talk about how their son's wife haven't gotten pregnant from morning to night before, "eh, is it her fault? It's my son's fault, he go marry his fellow man" Abi, when I got married to his father, that same month, I got pregnant. Who knows maybe she has aborted all the children God has predestined for her or she has destroyed her womb in the process of aborting, maybe she's an Ogbanje"
It's even worse when she goes to family gatherings "Ah that's the wife of Kenny, ehn the she-man" They'll make her the centre of jokes, ridicule her in front of the youngest children in the family and not for once would they consider how heartbreaking it is for her.
Then she'd start fearing social gatherings, she'd hide away from functions and lose her self worth just because she's unable to conceive. When Mr "I'm so fertile" is advised to go for test he'll laugh, call his wife shameless "if you're not shameless, would you be looking for someone to blame your infertility on? Empty barrel" but just to proof a point that it's definitely his wife's fault that they don't have children, he'll go for the test.
That was when his bubble burst, his shoulder pad comes down after and his song changes after he finds out that his very fertile self is not fertile after all, he's the empty barrel.
Instead of going home to show his wife the result, he wouldn't go straight home, he'd hang out with his friends until late into the night when he gets back home late and his wife queries him, he'd get defensive in the bid to cover up his guilt and the main matter wey dey ground.
At long last the wife finds the result herself, burst into tears when she thought about all the humiliation she has had to accept from Mr I'm very fertile and his family members, how she was called barren and made fun of in public without second thoughts. She calls his people to inform them that their fertile son yes, your very fertile son is the one that's infertile o.
Now that the tables are turn, the man is going to hear nwii from his "barren wife" but smart guy, he comes home with gifts and sweet words and starts forming Mr nice not knowing that his wife has found out the truth, surprise! Pay back time b*tch!
She accepts his sweet words and after six months of using drugs and nothing, she threatens to pack and leave "My wife, don't goooo, God's time is the best"
"This is the time you should stay together and fight for your love"
"It's during adversity that you know a good woman, stay with him please"
"Don't let people know what's going on in your family o, the shame will be on you"
Kii kii kii, just as you might have guessed, his people are the ones saying all these and the last part came from his mom.
The same people that open her yansh in public, that told every ear that cares to know that Kenny's wife is barren, the same ones that told him to try somewhere else are now the ones telling her to be patient, to stay by him and make it a secret. God purnish devil!
If the test had shown that she was the one at fault, her load would have been met each other at the husband's doorstep and her parents would have been informed that the beautiful flower that was taken away from them is not sowing seed and therefore has to be returned but now that it's their son's fault, they are telling stories that touch. Shioor!
Isn't waht's good for the geese good for the gander?
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