We have always given Mamalettes hints about how they can take care of their husbands.
However reading the comments that our readers have made us realise that men too should know how to take care of their wives.
Making a woman happy is not a small duty, so a Papalette would have to figure out what makes her happy first as this can vary depending on the woman.
To help out our Papalettes, we asked our Mamalettes how they want their husband to make them happy and these are some of the replies that we got.
Read and enjoy!
1. Spend Spend Spend by Trickie Triple
1) Spend ON her
2) Spend FOR her
3) Spend THROUGH her
4) Spend WITH her
5) Just SPEND, be it time, money, affection, love, sex, etc, JUST SPEND. She’ll do the savings, you’ll see
2. Unconditional Love by Angel Henry
Papalettes should love their wives unconditionally, trust her in all things, appreciate and compliment her often, respect the marriage vows by abstaining from cheating and any other vices that can destroy the love, bond, affection & trust, and above all provide for the wife and cater for his house hold because the bible says any man who cannot cater for his family is worse than an infidel.
3. 5 Commandments by Jemimah Uturu-Malaolu
Papalettes should
1. Respect their spouses never talk down to them in the presence of people remember she’s your help mate not your foot mat.
2. sometimes we just need you to listen to us we don’t always need advice we just need to let off the steam…so when next we need you to listen please do.
3. Never hit your woman she is not your punching bag if you notice her mouth gets sharper by the day leave her be till shes calm or find some other way to make her realize she’s wrong.
4. Sometimes when want you to just cuddle us…we just want to be held n loved it’s not every cuddling that must end in sex.
5. Love your wife this is the greatest commandment.
4. Understand Her by Blessyn Samuel Ebong
1. Because she says I need to be left alone doesn’t mean u should leave her to cry all by herself. Hold her hand, hug or cuddle her cos actions speaks louder than words. 2. Even when she complains about her weight gain n bulging tummy, never join in complaining about her looks cos she complained about herself to your hearing just to know if u still see her as sexy n attractive as she were before bearing your kids. 3. Don’t ever compare her wit your mum, EX or other women cos u saw all those women yet u choose to marry her. 4. Appreciate n sing her praise when she does little n u will be surprise to see her go all out to do more just to kip d praises going. 5. Make her your best friend, gist wit her even when d topic is about fashion or d silliest of things n u will see she wouldn’t have to go looking for a listening ear outside cos she’s got all she needs inside.
5. Man Up by Chybiz Chybiz
1. Be the man and d head of the family by loving and taken care of her and d hole family, so that she will be submissive Cox she is your neck. Without neck d head can’t function.
2. Always admit it when you are wrong and say sorry, so that peace will remain in your home.
3. Always praise, pray and encourage her, so that she will bring out d best in her.
4. Always carry her along in all u are doing be it spiritual, financial and otherwise, so that she will know your worth and then she will know how to manage d home and make savings for tomorrow.
5. Find out her weak points and try to live with it, so that she will learn all about u and manage your weak points too.
With dis peace will remain in our homes. My opinion
6. Do Not Take Her For Granted by Ebere Oko
1. Appreciate her in every way 2. Contribute in training d children not only financially but in every way 3. Tell her how much you LOVE her everyday not only when u r having sex 4. Spend on her, take her out without d kids as frequently as possible 5. Get her extra help for house chores & u will have a relaxed, stress free & happy wife!
7. Appreciate Her by Bolade Lateef Salami
First and foremost to even gain the love and respect of your wife is to be a protector and provider of your family. Your wife should feel secured around you and even when you’re not there. With the very little or much you have, the care and provision for your wife and family should come first.
Secondly, love her with no conditions. A conditional love tends to derail but with total friendship and communication, you will scale through all ordeals.
Thirdly, a man should always be for his wife, in public and in private. He should respect and honor her.
Fourth point, don’t be tired to teach. Human beings in general live to learn, we can’t be perfect at all times and knowing that especially as a woman they to slack at some points and you as a man always have unending needs and wants, your wife needs to know and not assume, you should be ready to shape her into your her best.
Fifth… appreciate! Appreciate!! Appreciate!!! It is through appreciation that you acknowledge, praise and reward all of her efforts,
8. Always Be There For Her by Evgst Joy Linus
The Bible says: men love your wives! This implies:
-kissing her every morning
-saying l love u to her
-hugging her
-respecting her even before his people
-showering her with gifts
-taking her on occasional honey moon
-defending her at all times
-appreciating her all round
-ensures she enjoys him all d way
-being with her at functions
-praying with her and d kids
-being understanding, caring, in sickness, child or no child, in good health, till death do them part!
-staying faithful always
-discussing his challenges with her
-planning with her
-putting God first in all and seeking HIS Divine direction
-reading d word of God as d compass that points their lives 2 Christ Jesus
-prayerfully dealing with their problems in love and agreement
-having and speaking one voice
9. Don’t Stop by Gusta Dee
Oya papalette open your ears and listen well, please take this serious to have a happy family
1)Never stop courting. Never stop dating. NEVER EVER take that woman for granted. When you asked her to marry you, you promised to be that man that would OWN HER HEART and to fiercely protect it. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. SHE CHOSE YOU. Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love.
2) PROTECT YOUR OWN HEART. Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance. Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife. Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there.
3) FALL IN LOVE OVER and OVER and OVER again. You will constantly change. You’re not the same people you were when you got married, and in five years you will not be the same person you are today. Change will come, and in that you have to re- choose each other everyday. SHE DOESN’T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU, and if you don’t take care of her heart, she may give that heart to someone else or seal you out completely, and you may never be able to get it back. Always fight to win her love just as you did when you were courting her.
4) ALWAYS SEE THE BEST in her. Focus only on what you love. What you focus on will expand. If you focus on what bugs you, all you will see is reasons to be bugged. If you focus on what you love, you can’t help but be consumed by love. Focus to the point where you can no longer see anything but love, and you know without a doubt that you are the luckiest man on earth to be have this woman as your wife
5) ITS NOT UR JOB TO CHANGE HER but your job is to love her for who she is without expectation of her changing after she must have given u kids and NEVER BLAME your wife If YOU get frustrated or angry at her, it is only because it is triggering something inside of YOU. They are YOUR emotions, and your responsibility. When you feel those feelings take time to get present and to look within and understand what it is inside of YOU that is asking to be healed…Papalettes heed to these tips and it shall be well with you
10. Husband Your Wife by Vera Jeff
Most men are hus and not husbands to their wives. They should know that it’s their duties to “Hus-bind” their marriage with Love and Affection. They should always see their wives as their “Helpmate” and not their house maid. Above all they should respect and treat their wives as the queens that they are.
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