Ask Mamalette! Can Lack Of Orgasm During Sex Affect Conception?

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Have you ever had that feeling of falling over the edge in the throes of passion? Have you ever reached orgasm, reached that peak of sexual ecstasy where you feel like crying or screaming at the sweetness of it all?

Orgasm, a 6 letter word that most women crave so bad, yet very few have ever been lucky enough to have the great love making, that drives them to the edge of passion and bring them to the door of orgasm.

A Mamalette asked this question on our platform;

“Please I want to know, if a woman’s body doesn’t move during sex, what is the cause and remedy? I mean if a woman doesn’t experience orgasm or doesn’t feel some pleasurable sensation which eventually culminate in a climax at orgasm during sex. What are the causes and solution?  
(2) And can this stop conception? I learnt that if the sperm is deposited in the vaginal, fertilization can take place any time the egg is released from ovary. I don’t know if it is true. Pls Mamalette I want to know.” 

Our Mamalettes responded and these are a few of their responses

Some Mamalettes said …….

“I think orgasm is a thing of the mind, it requires concentration, practice and hard work from both the man and his wife. First and foremost a woman should know her erogenous zones that sets her on a high altitude when fondled, caressed or touched. An intelligent man can still take note of those places that makes his woman moan, shuts her eyes or scream romantically when touched. Once you dictate those places, work on them and I bet you, she must surely move her body. Secondly, orgasm is meant for happy women, unhappy women hardly climax, is your woman happy? Make her happy. Engage in long foreplay, do not be selfish on bed. If you are sooo eager to see your woman climax, oga go down on her. Suck her clitoris and watch her vibrate like Samsung R20. Lack of orgasm does not stop conception but it helps the sperm to travel faster.” 
Chioma Alozie Chinkpebia

“A woman’s body do move during sex, you and your spouse need to play more, romance, kiss,touch the erectile tissue, your nipples, clitoris e.t.c, to make the woman’s orgasm reach the peak before going into sexual intercourse.” 
Yemisi Oluyemi Awoniyi

“To reach orgasm you need to know your g-spot, watch erotic movies beforw sex with hubby or watch it together. You can even imagine yourself as your hubby’s porn star and everyother thing will follow.”
 Abiola Olanrewaju Omotayo Misbah

It’s a thing of the mind a Mamalette said …..

“A woman’s body moves äñð you can reach orgasm if you are in the right frame of mind. Fertilization can take place when a sperm meets with an Egg äñð of course you can get pregnant.”
Betty Ejemen Omoregbe

A Mamalette talked about the possible cause and adviced….

“Its either the man isn’t good enough or the woman isn’t interested. Let there be enough romance and this romance has to be on spots that trigger erection in man and orgasm in woman. And have him thrust like you want, don’t just lay there too. Do something, move, touch him, kiss him and help him satisfy you.” 
Maryam Adebola Salami 

Some Mamalettes said even if she doesn’t orgasm she can…..

“Dear poster with or without your orgasm, fertilization is sure if you are ovulating. Try and enjoy sex like no man’s business because you are married. When you enjoy it, you will ejaculate.” 
Esther Ehichioya

“I will answer number 2. Yes fertilization can take place if sperm is deposited at the vagina. Because it moves, so it can move down to your eggs for fertilization.”

“With or without Orgasm conception will take place. Though it helps the sperm to swim to the permanent site.” 
Chinaza Lilian Eneh

You don’t have to orgasm before you enjoy sex neither do you have to orgasm before you conceive, so calm your mind. Truth is, women take much longer to orgasm than men. Follow the advice of Mamalettes and read up on 6 Ways To Make Your Oga Last Longer In Bed

You might want to read Sex Tips to Hasten ConceptionTiming Conception For A Male Child and Timing Conception For A Female Child

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