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Women do not even realise it when they are doing these things, but men love it anyways.
Whether you are newly married or in it for some time now, your Oga will still want you to do these things to him. They are small things you may do without thinking about it, but if you stop, your man will not be happy about it, but may not tell you. A lot of women stop doing these little things after they get married, and if you have a husband that doesn't like talking much, he wouldn't tell you about it. But he loves it when you do these 7 things
1. Laying your head on his chest
When you are laying in bed or in the parlour watching a movie, it feels good for you to take your head and place it on his chest and wraps your arms around him, then he can caress your head and steal looks at you. It makes him feel protective and because this signifies you feel safe in his arms.
2. When you call and text first
Shortly after women marry, they stop really caring, like they are so busy, they hardly have time for themselves. If your man is always the one calling and sending a text all the time, it might get to a point where he will stop, he wants you to make some effort. He wants to feel loved and missed too, and so he will stop, hoping that will make you start calling and sending a text to check up on him. Sending him a quick text will sweet him to the bone marrow.
3. Telling him you appreciate him
If your man is the type that's putting so much effort into your marriage, trying so hard to be the breadwinner and still loving and taking care of you. He deserves to be appreciated. Once in a while tell him how much you appreciate what he's doing for the family. And trust me, he can't ever complain about you appreciating his effort so much. Even if he's not as perfect as you would have wanted, as long as he's putting some effort, showing him you can see what he's doing and appreciating him for it will make him swell with pride and love for you.
4. Playing with his hair while he's driving
If you're going on an outing with your husband and he's driving, reach over and lightly brush the back of his head or rub his head for awhile. This will surely make him smile, although you shouldn't overdo it so you don't distract him.
5. Really listening
Sometimes we listen without really hearing what our man is saying. Listening takes an effort so you'd be able to react positively which will show that you have actually been listening. But when your husband comes home saying “honey, I'm so tired of this work” and you keep on doing your chores mumbling “why?' it shows you don't care. When you give your man a listening ear you become his friend because he can confide in you. Sit down, maintain an eye contact, talk to him about what he wish to say.
6. Bragging about him on social media
If I were a man, and every good thing I do is always appreciated by you “these cute shoes were bought by him.. God bless him for me” do you think I won't keep buying such when I see that post on Instagram or Facebook? But if all you do is nag and complain, I really would want to keep doing something nasty to annoy you. Snap a picture of the impromptu dinner you two went to, and post it online with the tag “me and my honey on a ...” You are showing appreciation and also encouraging him to do more. Your man will so love this.
7. Texting him when you're out with your friends
When you go out on an outing with your friends, a wedding, naming, burial ceremony, it takes a lot of effort not to forget that your man is at home for you may be caught up in the flurry of activities. But if despite everything going on around you, you still find the time to send a text to your man “Hi, honey, just checking on you. Hope you've eaten” he'll be amazed and touched that you still didn't forget him.
These are little things that doesn't cost much but does wonders for a relationship. So why not try them and see how much your man would love you for it.
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