The reason most marriages are crashing these days is because most of us leave the women to do all the work, it’s an African belief that it’s the woman that owns the house and therefore has to be the one to make the marriage work. To this end, we men neglect do our part in order to make our relationship work.
The impact this have on a relationship is to frustrate the woman and tire her out, when this happens, there can’t be happiness in such a home because the happiness of a home comes from the happiness of the woman which covers everyone under her umbrella.
So what are those things every married guy out there (including me) need to know? Here they are, if you are already doing these things, don’t stop and if you haven’t, start now please!
1. Speak to your woman in a warm and sweet tone of voice
Many of us feel to command respect we have to bark out orders like major generals in our home, and this shouldn’t be so. Your tone of voice is as important as the words you speak, take note of how you speak today. Every woman appreciate it when her man talk with warmth, kindness and understanding in his voice and she’s more ready to listen and act than when you bark out orders.
2. Don’t leave romantic acts till special days
Most of my friends only get their wives gifts on Val’s day, birthday or wedding anniversary what they do not know is getting their wife gifts on ordinary days is much more romantic and reeks of thoughtfulness. Getting my woman a new set of pants on an ordinary day can put her in the bests of mood for the whole week (as long as I behave). Your gift don’t always have to be expensive, an unplanned dinner in a nice place, flowers, and helping her with chores on a particularly rough day is enough to make her swell.
3. Compliment her
Let’s admit it, some men find it very hard to compliment their wife, 2 out of ten guys will randomly tell their wife “you look beautiful”, “Wow! you look stunning” every time you look at her. And this is a woman that spent hours preening and cleaning up to look good for you, that’s unfair! If you think she’s beautiful, say it out loud! She can’t read your mind can she? Your wife deserves to hear this word often.
4. Initiate conversation
Women love to talk, but when they are always the one bringing up conversations, they might start to hold back, you need to know your wife’s body language when she has something on her mind. One look at my wife and I know she wants to talk, so I draw her into a conversation and she’ll spill everything. When you communicate with your wife, she’ll feel more close to you and important, at night, turn off your phone and have a talk with your wife before going to sleep. Trust me, it will help your marriage.
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