Most of the time, parents with daughters are often the ones worried that their girl may be sexually abused but I've not seen a parent that's worried about their boy yet boys can also be sexually abused. That's probably because we don't fear the impact it might have on their lives, we belief it will affect the girls more, if you read this, you'll start watching out for your boy.
Tokunbo popularly called Toks has no regard at all for women and I used to wonder why, while talking to a girl he's already sizing her up and thinking of how he'll f**k her, there are times he'll even bluntly tell the girl, "I like you, let's get down tonight" while licking his lips like a dog, most of these girls find him rude but end up in his bed.
When we became friends I got curious, "why are you so rude to women?" I'd ask, 'cause they're cheap, just watch" then he'd whistle at a girl and walk towards her, get her number and promise me he'll have s*x with the girl before the end of the day, true to his words when he's f*king the girl, he'd call me and put the phone on loudspeaker so I can hear her "ringtone", he was that bad.
Unluckily for him, he fell in love with me, the good girl who would never fall for his kind of guy when we got talking he told me he started having sex at age 6.
His dad died when he was just 3 so he was brought up by his mom, while growing up, a distant relative of her mom was living with them, her name is Sister Funke, she was very randy and was the one who initiated him into sex at the young age of 6.
When she wants to bath, she'll take him in, touch him until he's hard then stick his prick into herself and rock to it, meanwhile the mother knows not what's going on in the bathroom.
At other times, she'll come wait for him and pick him up in school straight to the house and get him to give her a quickie, she continued this until it got to a stage he was the one that started asking her for sex saying "Aunty funke, I want to pee"(meaning I want to cum) while smacking her ass, she'll just laugh it off. Her mom never saw this as anything either, she was just happy to have someone that's ready to help her with her child.
This continued until one day she almost caught them, apparently they all went to the mom's shop, towards the evening, sister Funke heard some people groaning inside the next shop, peeped and saw the carpenter guy hitting his girlfriend hard from the back, she watched until she wanted what they were doing, Tokunbo's mom was in shop so she couldn't grab him.
She hurried her that it's time to go home so the cooking will be early, she grabbed Toks and told the mom to "meet us at home" she told Toks what she saw (the poor boy) and that she wants just that.
They made it to the staircase of their floor then she couldn't hold it anymore, she instructed the boy to have her from behind and the young s*x expert did as he was told, it was while she was bleating like a goat that they heard their mom's footsteps, Toks ran upstairs while Sister Funke burst into laughter to cover up what was actually happening doing (all she had to do was pull up her skirt).
The mother never suspected anything, Toks did this for the 7 years the sister was living with them and he became a full sex addict, a lover of doggie, and disrespecter of anything in skirt.
From the way he narrated his story, he felt he had the baddest childhood ever, but I felt for him 'cause by age 13 he was an expert in luring girls into school toilets and giving them quickies which he proclaimed they enjoyed and always come back for more with so much swell in his voice.
Unknown to him, sister Funke has destroyed him forever, now if he ever marries, he'll find it hard to stick to and enjoy sex with only one woman, women's image is forever tarnished in his eyes (he sees women as object of sex only), and pity he doesn't even know how to love.
The issue here is mothers shouldn't just focus on protecting their daughters from s*x abuse, they should watch heir boy's back too, as sex abuse can have long-lasting effect on boys also.